The hardest part for me was that you didn’t realize I was one of THOSE KIDS. You saw me as a good student who was capable of making good grades and following the rules and I was those things. You saw me as someone who could get along with others and who could communicate effectively with both my peers and […]
As Mental Health Awareness month comes to an end and there has been so much talk about what is being done and what isn’t being done and why shouldn’t more be done, I wanted to figure out exactly what I wanted to say. First, I thought about do I think more could be done? Yes. Do I think more should […]
I’ve been through a lot. That’s not an excuse. It’s a fact. I don’t want to share what happened to me and I actually really don’t like when people think they have a right to know. You don’t. It’s my story and I’m not ready to share it. I may never be ready. But what I need you to understand […]
That one interaction changed the way I teach. It changed everything. The student wasn’t a good student and most of the time was difficult to even like. He was one of THOSE KIDS. He had been suspended and expelled and recently kicked out of an alternative school. He had been arrested and incarcerated. He had a reputation that proceeded him. His peers feared him and his […]
The minute I hit school, it was pretty much game over for me. I was one of THOSE KIDS. It didn’t matter what I did or didn’t do – you made the decision for me. My brother was one of THOSE KIDS and my sister was one of THOSE KIDS and so my same last name automatically placed me […]
I’m not going to talk about the gay kid anymore. Or the bisexual kid. Or the transgender kid. Labels. How come the labels always get to me before the student? I teach in a psychiatric hospital and the labels travel fast. I know when I was in a general education building the labels flew across the building. A student comes […]
Just Stop Studying. Actually, what I said was if you try to study for that test, I am going to burn your study guide. You are not studying. Doesn’t sound like parenting at it’s finest does it, but I would argue it’s one of the best things I ever did for my child. Rewind two years to freshman orientation. We […]
Dear Student, I found a letter you wrote over 15 years ago to me at the end of your 8th grade year. You were thanking me for helping you and all I did for you. Reading that letter brought tears to my eyes, but not for the reasons you probably think. I felt so bad. I was not the teacher […]
I recently ran into a group of new teachers at lunch. We had a brief conversation about where we work. When they heard where I teach, an inpatient psychiatric hospital, one of the teachers said, “Good for you. I couldn’t work with THOSE kids.” I said, “You do realize when THOSE kids leave my facility they will become YOUR kids.” […]
I didn’t start out with a plan to teach THOSE KIDS, but I am sure every experience I had led me to where I am today. I started out in elementary and quickly moved to middle school Language Arts. From there moved into special education with an emphasis working with kids with behavior and emotional needs. If there was a […]
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